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[Steve]

I feel like I'm having the worse week ever, and I really need to vent.

First off...Saturday I had plans with my cousin, her bf, and my friend Andrea. My cousin said she wouldn't be able to come out until a little later. So I called Andrea who was supposed to call me at 5:30ish, and it was already 6:45 and said "So are we still hanging out?" She goes "I never told anyone I was coming out for sure."

I had e-mailed her several times that week to make plans, and she never once said she wasn't going to be able to come, in fact she made suggestions as to what we should go and do. So she says "Well I can hang out for an hour and get Starbucks" So we did that around 9 when my cousin could come too. The entire time, Andrea kept biting my head off every time I would say something...saying "What are you talking about?" or looking at me like I was crazy, etc. So I thought maybe I had done something wrong...I mean I was mad when she said she wasn't coming out but I wasn't rude about it. So I e-mailed her later and she didn't reply.

Then Sunday I e-mailed my friend Katie because I'm designing an online portfolio for her as my final project for my web design class. She said sure I'll get everything ready for you right away. Tuesday came, and we were supposed to meet to discuss everything and she didn't show up and didn't send me anything to start working on. Today she pulled the same crap...this is my final exam grade, and she's not showing up to tell me what she wants. She's always flaking out on me, and it really pisses me off because she doesn't call, text or e-mail until it's WAYYY to late. She's 21 years old, and she is the most irresponsible person I know...I always do favors for her, and as soon as I need one from her, she's too busy.

Wednesday we had the FUSE store at school. Basically in my graphic design class, we spent the whole semester designing a product, and then we have to make 10 of them to sell in a one-day store. We get there and set up and my teacher goes "I forgot all about copyrights...I know you cited everything, but we still can't have anyone with books actually sell their books...they have to give them free with something else" So I had to spend the whole day running around trying to find something to sell with it. My teacher kept my book off the shelf most of the day then and I only ended up selling one. That was a whole semesters worth of work, and she realizes the day it's due that there is going to be a problem.

So, last night I e-mailed Andrea again, telling her about how much my week sucked, and I saw she was online and she still didn't reply, and I saw that she wrote on her ex-bf wall on Facebook. I have noooo idea what's going on, and it's really bugging me. Her and I are best friends, and I can't figure out why she'd be pissed at me. I can't think of anything I may have done wrong...and it bugs me even more, because I have a crush on her (she doesn't know) so that makes it feel a million times worse.

Uggh sorry for the long post, but I really needed to vent!!!!!!!!
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[Tiger-Chan]

well it sounds like she is PMSing lol. I get really irritated when Im getting you know what lol. Rick and I always fight around that time. So maybe thats it. Or that she did find out that you like her and she dosent know how to handle the situation. Or that she is just crazy lol

Give it a week and then try to talk to her again.
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[Steve]

IDK...I hope it's just that's she's PMSing!! I called her Thursday night, and she was fine, but then I called her Saturday...she was okay most of the time but a few times she got kind of biotchy.

When I called Thursday, I said do you want to try to hang out this Saturday...she said "Sure I'll try." I said okay I'll call you around 5:30 Sat. to find out. So I called and she says "No I have too much homework again." I said "Okay I kind of figured" She goes "Well why don't you go cry about it!!" I said "I wasn't trying to be rude, I understand that you have too much, I'm doing homework myself right now too." She goes "Then why are you calling me?" I said "Because I told you I would" Later she told me she "doesn't care about my problems." IDK what kind of friend that is? We talked for about half an hour with the exception of the beginning of the call and the comment about not caring she was fine the rest of the time. I hope this ends soon, because pretty soon crush or no I won't be friends with her anymore, which would suck since we've known each other almost 7 years now.

I'll try not talking to her for a week like you suggested. I hope she's just PMSing or under stress and for some reason is taking it out on me. UGGGGH!!
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[Tiger-Chan]

A good friend wouldnt take it out on you. I have gotten rid of alot of friends that I have known for 12, 13 years cuz they are bad friends. I look out for myself now these days.

But if she still persists on being a biotch, I would confront her about it before making that decision not talking to her anymore.

I hope all goes well!! xo
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[Steve]

Thanks...it's weird even though I'm not talking to her right now (which she probably doesn't even notice or care, but it makes me feel better) I still keep thinking..."O I want to tell Andrea this or that".
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[Tiger-Chan]

So how is it going now? That post was on the 7th, and I have been away for 5 days.
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[Steve]

Sorry I would have replied sooner, but my computer is getting fixed, so I've been using my sister's the last few days.

Anyway...the week I said I wasn't going to talk to her, she ended up calling me on that Thursday. We went out for drinks and went to my house to watch Lost. Nothing too exciting happened, but she was completely back to normal???

Then this past Friday (which would be the week after we went for drinks) she called me to go out to lunch, but I didn't have my phone with me so I missed her call. She called me back to let me know that's why she had called...again completely normal.

So either she's bipolar or she was SERIOUSLY PMSing!! I don't know what to think!! I'm just happy she's not acting like that anymore...next time though (which hopefully won't happen) I'll have to ask what her problem is...though I'm not one to usually speak up, so that might be a problem lol. I wish I was more outspoken sometimes.
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